Worry

I'm worried I'll never be able to excape the romance pitfall. The one in which females start planning the wedding and the rest of their lives with a guy just moments after meeting them.

I know I don't want to do it, but I always do. My daydreams reluctantly fall to "we would live well together because of x and y." or "I would like him to make me dinner every night, forever."

What a bunch of crap. Even when I'm done with love and do not want a relationship; I'm still thinking of this shit.

Questions

Your philosophical approach to life:
What fundamental approaches to life have worked for you, and what haven't?

You may have never stopped to ask that question, or known the benefits of finding the right answer to it. This year, those answers will come, and your life is likely to be a saner, better-adjusted place for it.



Association:
Fundamental approach to life
Happiness
Logic
Me first
"I know"
I can handle my own
I don't need anyone
I can take carevof myself
I am not weak
What is Love?
I can't wait for the future
It'll all *get* better
I want the familiar
I want to see it all

Travel

I've come to the conclusion that my fear of moving to a warmer climate (where I would thrive) is because I am afraid of losing the support group I have here currently. I am afraid that if I move away, they will live on without me. And I do not want to lose them.