After a crazy week at work and even crazier after work schedule I had one of the best dates I've ever had. A surprise location was the only agenda item I really got, with a hint of "footwork" involved in the planning. So I knew I would need to dress nicely and yet comfortable. I got a beautiful, balanced, aromatic bouquet of flowers on monday which was a sweet and thoughtful start to my week. I'm not sure anyone has ever spent this much time thinking about me, or at least spent that much time doing it, and then acting on it in a smart and thoughtful way. I'm continually amazed at the level of maturity this Libra has to offer and how maturity does not mean serious or strict. I've finally found someone who is spontaneous and optimistic like myself! Someone who likes having people around but doesn't need the attention, only needs the presence or idea.
His thoughts are well formed and he isn't afraid to geek out on a topic that inspires him. He doesn't wait to have fun with his knowledge. He enjoys life in the now. He is direct and thoughtful. Even in the smallest kiss or the slightest touch.
I might feel a bit inadequate when I think of all his high marks, but only because he exudes where I want to be, but as it is, I am still an impulsive, must have now and think of the future, excitement junkie. I say things without putting much formed thought behind the words and I feel things that I don't quite understand. The only thing I have going for me is that I know what I want (to a degree) and I know how to get what I want.
I am interested in seeing where this dual air sign relationship can take me. I've never done it before, and I'm intrigued by the class of the individual and the caliber of the interactions. Really what I mean to say is that he blows my mind. I never thought a guy could be like him. He is far from what I think is perfect, but who wants mr. Perfect? I have mr. Damn Close to Perfect and I'm already feeling inadequate and worrisome. I need to get my feelings about myself in check before let them rule me.
So the surprise date was a funny play where we could cuddle up on stage (me in my dress, and him in his trendy shirt and tie), and a picnic for two in the park after dark. The weather was perfect and the planning was crazy good. He illicited the help of my friends (who gave nothing away, not even that they knew we were going on a date together!) and we had wine and sushi and fruit all outside overlooking the city buildings (highest point in the city I suppose). It was crazy thoughtful and extremely romantic. He really cares and enjoys doting (as well as being doted on). He's smart enough to know where to go for help (friends) and he's not afraid to ask them and let them know what he's up to. No games, no secrets, but loads of frills and fanciness. Thoughtfulness. Care. Class. Courage. Playfulness. Delight.
He has an awesome personality and a gorgeous mind. He cares enough to dress himself well and has enough class to know when to dress up. He has the courage to make things happen and the delightful acceptance of the way things turn out.
What a guy.
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